Dear Me,
You will go through a lot of strange moments in your life. I’m not going to tell you what they are because I wouldn’t change anything that has made me who I am today, not even the bad moments. But I do have some advice.
There are so many times you will ALLOW others to bring you down. Your heart will break, be crushed. And that’s okay, I won’t tell you who by. Go ahead and fall in love. Love. Pour your heart into it. When things don’t turn out the way you like, don’t LET it almost destroy you. Use those moments to perhaps write. You want to be a writer but may not know it yet.
Always have hope. Keep it in mind that life exists tomorrow. All those disappointments have happened and are over. You make your future today. Love, work, life? All of those moments of trial and agony? Yes, you will feel it in the moment but don’t let it eat you alive to spiritual and emotional death.
But do experience those emotional moments, they will help you in the future to handle other moments. You will become someone who can understand others with the same moments in their lives. You will be able to help people and want to help them.
Love hard. Don’t go halfway. But take your time to know who you are about to love hard. And when you know its the right person, love hard in every way. Make that person know your love is a tangible thing that exists even when you are not in the room.
Loving hard might mean you fall hard and are broken had but the experience of love filling your heart, your soul, your entire being is worth every moment. Even if it’s for a day or a week, experience it. It’s worth every it.
That’s my advice today. Let those moments of agony go and use them to make you better and love hard with everything you’ve got.
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Beautiful advices Ronovan 😀
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So true. Every experience has something to teach us…the question is, will we learn? Yes, love hard. ☺
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Letter to a younger self… not sure if it’s entirely uplifting, an exhortation perhaps. 🙂 https://meaningsandmusings.wordpress.com/2014/06/23/see-the-signs/
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Great advice Ron! Love hard… a brilliant turn of phrase.
Here’s mine…
http://k1kat.com/2015/01/29/letter-to-13-year-old-kat/
Kat
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It’s very interesting how similar our letters are, at least to me. I still wonder if I actually had the chance if I would give (or take) this advice. Great prompt!
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Totally love this!!!
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[…] a newbie participant in Ronovan Writes #Bewow Prompt; a weekly twitter Blogshare of positive posts. BeWoW is an acronym for “Be Wonderful on Wednesday”. Participants are supposed to compose a post comprising positivity, encouragement, motivation, or […]
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Letter to my Younger Self… First Time #BeWoW Blogger…yaasss 🙂
https://thepbsblog.wordpress.com/2015/04/22/bewow-day-ronovan-writes-weekly-bewow-challenge/
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Excellent advice! Very hard to do- it hurts like hell if it goes bad- but still worth it in the long run. 🙂
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[…] Every Wednesday Ronovan at Ronovan Writes invites bloggers to participate in Be Wonderful on Wednesday, a weekly challenge where we are encouraged to write something inspirational, happy…. wonderful! This week he talked about advice he would give his younger self, if he could. You can read his post here- Love hard. My #BeWoW advice to my younger self. […]
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THANKS, RON . . . great advice!
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