Combining events across two blogs can bring inspiration. I’ve always been a quote person in my writings. Quotes naturally lead to positive thoughts, and positivity is what #BeWoW is all about. If we write positive words to share across the blog community, instead of rants, hatred, and veiled animosity that fools no one (check politics these days), we then promote a positive atmosphere.
Too many people get their kicks writing about junk. Too many people get their kicks reading about junk. I avoid junk as often as possible. One friend recently asked me to read a satire about Donald Trump in regards to his accepted role in the Republican Party in the United States. I refused. I waste no time with reading about Donald Trump, or any other candidates all that much.
“There exist only three beings worthy of respect: the priest, the soldier, the poet. To know, to kill, to create.” Charles Baudelaire
French Poet and essayist, Baudelaire named the three beings correctly, but these days each takes on a different guise. Those committed to revealing the world, bettering the world, and saving the world are encompassed in those descriptions above. If you are or know someone with those characteristics . . . respect them.
“One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say.” Bryant H. McGill
It is difficult to discover what a person is without listening. We have conversations buy how often do we listen? You my have several exchanges but points are completely missed. Each side is colored by their own opinion and thus interpret the other side of the conversation with that opinion. We are often so wrong.
“I never make the mistake of arguing with people for whose opinions I have no respect.“ Edward Gibbon
By listening you discover a great deal. One is when not to waste time. If someone won’t listen to you, then move on. There is a give in take in the world. There are no time limits or deadlines to the understanding of opinions as long as each are actively attempting to understand.
“It is so important to get respect for what you do and at the same time give it.” Estelle Parsons
People are so concerned with obtaining respect for their own opinions or accomplishments they forget there are two sides of the situation in many cases. In order to obtain respect, you must give respect in return. I know that can be difficult when you perceive others as not giving you respect, that’s where listening comes into play . . . true listening.
“Respect for ourselves guides our morals, respect for others guides our manners.” Laurence Stern
For me, when I am well centered and focused on what is important in my life, I have a set of beliefs that allow me to respect myself and when I respect myself, I’m able to respect others more easily. When you can’t respect yourself it’s almost impossible to find how to respect others.
“As all human beings are, in my view, creatures of God’s design, we must respect all other human beings. That does not mean I have to agree with their choices or agree with their opinions, but indeed I respect them as human beings.” Stockwell Day
It can be tough at times to keep respect in mind. Sometimes you feel disrespected or ignored. Then when you are respecting you must push through those times when other people continue to ignore you, don’t listen to you, and disrespect you.
“I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity.” Julius Erving
One thing to keep in mind is, no one has to like you. You don’t need like in this world. Society has because a click away from acceptance and popularity or depression and suicide. If we share something with people we look for a response. Since there is less and less face to face interaction, we now look at clicks for ‘likes’ on updates and posts.
“That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong.” William J. H. Boetcker
People are going to disagree with you. The important thing is to stick to your beliefs. If you do that, stick to what you believe, you can always hold your head high. We all slip at times, but the important part is getting back up and moving forward and beyond whatever we allowed to influence our slipping in the first place.
“This world of ours… must avoid becoming a community of dreadful fear and hate, and be, instead, a proud confederation of mutual trust and respect.” Dwight D. Eisenhower
Looking around you can see divisions everywhere. People demanding respect by not giving respect. You respect us, we’ll respect you. That’s not how it works. You want something, you be something. Communication is one of the most important tools we have as humans, and one of the least utilized ones.
“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” Lao Tzu
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Some excellent quotes there Ron. Respect plays a huge part in my life as I feel it is so important to give and earn respect.
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Lots of great quotes about Respect Ronovan. I agree listening is so important, respecting others and earning their respect and trust. Here’s my WQW and BeWOW post, on the subject of editing. https://kyrosmagica.wordpress.com/2016/02/24/writers-quote-wednesday-bewow/
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Some good quotes Ron. As for the part about ‘likes’ it is something necessary to emphasize. Likes can’t validate your worth as a human being. This is something we as bloggers and those who use a lot of social media must start to understand. Great post. 🙂
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Great post Ron with a fantastic collection of quotes! I read something about this lately, it was a school trying to block facebook as girls were bullying each other on there. It is sad that the number of likes on a picture on facebook can cause a young girl so much pain. I loved the focus on positivity this week, thanks for sharing. KL ❤
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Thank you. 🙂 #BeWoW started out as Be Wonderful on Wednesday. Just my on personal thing. No Hashtag but people wanted to join in so I said why not. 🙂
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Great quotes. I intend to use them in my writings and also in my life.
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Cool stuff here.. Guess I have two things going for me. I am a “Woman of the Cloth” and a poet… Could it be I know AND I create? lol 🙂
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And a soldier of sorts. Fighting and protecting. 🙂
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The Triple Crown, then! ❤
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Ron, this was one of the most beautiful quote compilations you have ever done. Bravo! I love the one about spreading positive thoughts. There is so much ugliness in the world today. By sharing these quotes and promoting positiveness in the world we are canceling out some of that ugliness. I also saw that I am featured on your blog as an author to know! I am so thankful for your kindness. **Blushing** big time! ❤
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🙂 Was wondering if you had seen it yet. I am contemplating moving the image around. Tinkering for now. 🙂
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That is so sweet of you! Thank you. I am still blushing! ❤
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v Nice Quote ! and agreed to every bit of bit, we all expect respect from people and we never question ourselves Are we giving enough respect to them ? Sometimes we regret giving more respect to people than we actually get in return, it just directly hits ego I guess, but then to keep going on is what life is all about 🙂
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Great quotes! I love the first one––it’s so true. 🙂
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