Hating on You. Is that a good thing or bad? A phrase and its meaning.

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Hating on You. Is that a good thing or bad? A phrase and its meaning.

I don’t hate anyone. No, really, I don’t. I may hate what someone does but the way I believe I understand that other things are out there that lead us in certain directions. Now that that serious moment is over.

I am so hating on some of you people. Yes, I said it. I’m hating on you.

“But Ronovan, you said you don’t hate people.”

I had to bring this phrase to everyone’s attention because in the USA there are two things this can mean.

One is someone is very jealous of you and just cannot stand you.

Or as I used it, it’s a compliment meaning I am an envious admirer of your talent.

You have to know the person to know the meaning. And to be honest, no person is going to come up to you and say they are ‘hating on you’ if they are really hating you or jealous of you.

As a writer it’s nice to know certain expressions from various places.

What phrases do you have that people might not understand and would help a writer be better prepared when writing a scene?

Until next time, peace out and blog out.

No Apologies Guilty Pleasure: Flowing my Emotions

There was a writing prompt on the Daily Post about, “What’s the one guilty pleasure you have that’s so good, you no longer feel guilty about it?”. It took a while because I don’t really have a lot of things I indulge in. My life is pretty simple in what I like and focus on.

 

But it occurred to me that there is one thing and that is letting my emotions and feelings flow in words. For a time I felt uncomfortable about what I was putting on the page because of what people might think, but in reality people think everything but just don’t like to acknowledge it. But I’ve come to embrace it. Those feelings and emotions make life out of life.

 

As a writer I think that I turned a corner when I embraced that guilty pleasure. Perhaps I am not a money making machine, but I am a satisfied word artist who when letting my mind and heart write together can turn a phrase that I never would have considered in the past.

 

In any form of writing the reader needs to feel your investment in the piece. I may obscure meaning when I write a poem or hide myself within a character but I know what is there and sometimes a person just clicks with it and they just say, “Yeah, that’s me.” I no longer use the word guilty with my emotional pleasures. They fuel my creativity.

Thank you to Active Army Wife for reminding me of the prompt as I read her guilty pleasure.c