Someday (Letter Three)

This is a Becky Meyer of the blog Humyn that I just connected with on Twitter today through Suzie’s #SundayBlogShare. Writing a becky-meyerletter to herself? I read it and I think it is a great idea. I think in a way we all do it in different forms, but I really like this. I see a bloghop out of this she could start #LetterToMyself. I really enjoyed this and other things I read. Follow her on her blog and Twitter.

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Someday, this will be a memory. Someday you'll be okay. Someday, this will be just a memory. Someday, you’ll be okay.

This is my third letter to myself. I know, I write letters to myself a lot. But writing in itself is cathartic, and this letter-writing technique has proven to be just what I needed.

Letter One

Letter Two

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Dear Me,

Maybe one day I’ll stop writing you letters.  Right now, I haven’t yet said enough. It’s crucial to communicate with you.

Today is one of those beautiful “good” days. Your thoughts are clear, and you feel in control.

I cannot, however, explain why your negative thoughts surrounded you a couple of days ago. They swarmed like bees, stinging you again and again. They made their way into your mouth, down your throat, and suffocated you. You collapsed, succumbing to these thoughts instead of controlling them. That day, your negativity controlled you.

At this point in time, I still…

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Episode 263: Nymphomaniac by @Edwinasepisodes

Edwina is the first to enter this week. And, um, well, um. Just go read.

Judy E Martin's avatarEdwina's Episodes

I really enjoyed my first attempt at at a Haiku last week, and some of the other entries that I checked out were brilliant! Thanks so much to Ronovan’s Writes Weekly Haiku Poetry Prompt Challenge #38

I thought I would have another go this week. The words to be used are ‘Ill’ and ‘rest.’

Here is my attempt entitled ‘Nymphomaniac.’

She yearned for a man

A blind date was ill-advised

Please give it a rest!

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Update.

A quick update. I posted the Haiku Review and things I have because that’s my responsibility to do so. It’s what I do each week and unless I am actually in the hospital I will do what I can.

The Review took all day when it normally takes a few hours.

I had the Widgets article basically complete last week and it would have gone out Friday.

I am not healed. I am not better than I was yesterday. I am still highly medicated. I blog as I can because it keeps me going.

So if I do not respond to things, or come across as short at times, forgive me in advance. I’ll get better eventually.

 

 

Episode 243 : Ronovan Writes Weekly Haiku Poetry Prompt Challenge ‘Foul’ & ‘Sweet’

NEW POET ALERT!!!!
Thanks to Hugh we have a new lady joining this week and she nailed it perfect the first time out. Awesome! Go and say hello and like her Haiku on her site!

Judy E Martin's avatarEdwina's Episodes

After a lovely conversation with Hugh last night, he mentioned that he participated in Ronovan’s Weekly Haiku Challenge and encouraged me to have a go. Now I know what a Haiku is, kind of, but have never, ever had a go at writing one. However, I normally like to have a go at something new, so am happy to try my hand at a Haiku!

The ‘prompt words’ are ‘foul’ and ‘sweet’

His breath was so foul

after eating some garlic

He wanted a sweet.

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RonovanWrites’ Week 36 #Haiku Challenge

A new Haiku poet among us. Author as well and I hope someone that continues to join in. Go and give a welcome.

E.E. Rawls's avatarE.E. Rawls Writes

This week, Ronovan Writes Weekly Haiku Challenge, the two words given to us are: Field & Beacon. The challenge is that we write a haiku with both of these words in it. Here is mine! 🙂

“Field & Beacon”

The forlorn field wails,

Its song across Irish seas,

The beacon rings peace.

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RonovanWrites Weekly #Haiku #Poetry Prompt Challenge #36 Field&Beacon: The Field

Colleen is in the house with The field. Nice two sentence form that does the trick of what the Haiku intends. You do get a sense of peace and calm.

Wednesday’s Sunrise – Hovering Halo

So love this picture and description.

seaangel4444's avatarThe Chicago Files

Lake Michigan March 18 2015

– There appears to be a ‘halo’ over this morning’s sleepy sun, don’t you think? A lovely symbol to start your Wednesday.

Have a wonderful day; the sun, ‘has your back’!  *grin*

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@RonovanWrites Weekly Haiku Challenge

I call this one Pratchett. What other word would you–could you–use?

Marigold's avatarVersus Blurb

In response to Ronovan Writes’ Weekly Haiku Challenge: Miss & Past

Sir Terry Pratchett

Though you have now passed,

You will still inspire us.

We will all miss you.

 Rest In Peace Terry Pratchett, creator, satirist, brilliantly clever.

P.S. We will keep the orangutans safe.

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Share it, don’t wear it.

First of all, THIS IS NOT A SELF SEEKING PITY POST! I am simply sharing as therapy here. I share to let others see that we are all the same and have the same things happen or similar things happen. Even the positive people of the world have screwed up lives at times. So PLEASE do not take this as a pity post.

Seeing that tomorrow is my day for a positive post I am getting myself ready for it now. The past few days have been those days where I want to simply sleep all day.

  • Fevers have been occurring in the house.
  • Breakfasts have been reappearing with sudden force.
  • Migraines have been off the chart.
  • Pressures have run rampant.

I’ve been on the verge of:

  • Giving up dreams.
  • Giving up friendships.
  • Even giving up a book I wrote and telling the co-author it’s theirs to do with as they wished.

A lot of people look at me and think, just rest. “You do too much.” “It’ll be okay.” “You’re under stress.” But they forget a few things about me. Old Ronovan isn’t all okay up there in the noggin.

It’s been a while since I’ve been on the cusp of debilitating depression. Depressed? Yes. Hide in my room and not come out for any reason whatsoever? No. I think it’s been maybe a month and a half or so.

Recently I’ve lost memories of friends. I get emails from them and have to wing it. I don’t want people to get upset with me, because I hope things will come back. I read back through previous emails from them to get an idea of things and then come up with a decent reply.

You know, the bad part is there are people I wish at times would just disappear that don’t. Do you have people like that?

What people don’t get is I do so much in order to keep out of depression. But then I get in to so much and border on letting people down and then the depression begins.

So why am I saying all of this while wanting to get ready for a positive day of posts? You gotta get it out of your system.

Share it, don’t wear it.

Know what I mean? You have those friends like that? They like to wear their problems and not get rid of them. It’s like they are so happy to be down. I share and get it over with. blah

It’s difficult to be a friend of mine in the sense of like a outside of blog friend. Like in email and chat friend. You don’t know if I am going to be normal one moment and completely not handle situations properly the next. There is like a wire inside my mind that overheats and as it does it doesn’t want to work right.

You know like on the dryer in your house. Sometimes a part will heat up and it will actually just get hotter and hotter. That’s my brain. I can feel it at times doing that. But it feels more like an icepick scratching and scraping away at a spot, trying to make its way deeper inside my brain.

That’s when I enter the, “I’m sorry” zone. I apologize for everything and then I disappear. I’m not gone for good, but I need to shut down and try to patch things back up and cool the brain down.

I hope my friends are reading this so they will understand me better. If not? I guess I will keep going through the cycle. You do what you have to do, right?

See you all tomorrow for Be Wonderful on Wednesday. I’ve got the bad out and can now go for the good. You can even look at this as positive. I do. I shared it, I didn’t wear it. And I’m not hiding.

Oh, a cool thing today. My son is in the fourth grade and recently they took a reading test to see their level of reading. He sort of blew it off not realizing what it was for. His level came out to be half way through the 8th Grade and he was second highest in his grade. He so needs to learn each test is a test no matter what it is. Geesh. Imagine what he might have done. Anyone surprised he’s an advanced reader?

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Do you Know an Anthem Writer of the Next Generation?

Here is my guest post on Meanings and Musings, my friend Florence Thum’s blog. She is part of the Team over at LitWorldInterviews. Please go and check it out.

FlorenceT's avatarMEANINGS AND MUSINGS

Songwriting is an incredibly satisfying process. If you think about it, if you write songs, you are being inspired by people like Beethoven. Beethoven has an impact on today’s music unlike how you might suspect. If you trace back through time the artist you are being inspired by now, you will eventually get back to people like Beethoven. People like Taylor Swift or Katy Perry could trace their influences back.

Each generation of music impacts the next. And each generation attempts to find some way of putting their mark, their fingerprints on the music of the day, and then their music impacts the next person to listen.

There are music acts I may not like, but when I listen to the music itself I may find just a little something, a beat, just a bit of a line that then sends me to writing lyrics. I won’t know anything about…

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Haiku: Another day

The First Entry into the Haiku Challenge this week comes from Elizabeth. I think it goes well with my own haiku entry. What do you think? Please click through to her site and like the haiku there and follow her. She’s a great supporter.

Who is Pap Pap?

Here he is. Pap Pap. The man that needs everyone’s help. I know I keep posting about him and his need and Kate’s need for help. You may be tiring of it, but the goal hasn’t been met and I just can’t stop trying to get the word out. You know when you get one of those inside of you that you just know you MUST do? Well this is mine right now. I just have to. Kate gives you a story through pictures and why he is Pap Pap and so loved by his granddaughters.

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Crafting with Kate's avatarDazzling Whimsy

So Ronovan,from Ronovanwrites while I was at work made a great badge and posted it to help spread the word.  How special that was to see it go through!  But as I sat and ate lunch I thought, he is right -shhh don’t tell him I like to think I am always right 🙂 But here I am asking for you to help a complete stranger who means a lot to me but nothing to you and these two thoughts come to mind.

1. I am suddenly overwhelmed with the thought of all of you caring so much to help someone you do not know.
How amazing and kind!

2. Shame on me for not letting you see who he is and what he means to the girls and I – after-all aren’t I a blogger???

So here are a few of my favorite shots from over the years of…

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My Parent’s Fire

Kate finally had a moment to breathe and share a post and update. One thing she failed to mention is how her daughters are handling this. One is so traumatized that she is sleeping with her mother now. A house fire of a loved one sends panic through the young members of a family. And believe me when she says she is overwhelmed by how helpful people are being she is being honest. They have a ways to go to get to their goal, and even that isn’t going to be enough really to replace a lifetime. I suggested he talk them into a little RV to live in and then they could go where they wanted to, including her driveway. Um, she was like, she wants them in something without wheels. I’;; put that down to the whole age thing. 😉
Keep spreading the word. Remember anonymous and even $5 will work.

Crafting with Kate's avatarDazzling Whimsy

For those of you who may not know, My parents lost everything in a house fire on 2/7/15.  They are from Ocala, Florida and on Saturday evening I received a call from a man who asked me my name and if I was related to Ed Jenkins.  That is very scary let me tell you.  He said your Dad is ok, here he is and handed him the phone.  Then all I heard was sobbing.  I honestly thought my Mom had died.  The other man took the phone back and said their house had burned down and they were ok but emotional.  The last 48 hours have been a whirlwind of love and support from friends, family, WC Family , my work, and my blogging community.

I cannot begin to even express the thankfulness I feel for each and every one of you. Ronovan, from https://ronovanwrites.wordpress.com/  has been incredible…

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‘Fifty Shades’ and pornified rape victims

People call me brave about what I talk about at times. No, I’m not brave. Read.

Unknown's avatarSarahbeth Caplin

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In a typical college romance novel, he’d be a gorgeous but troubled sex god who’d cure all my deep-seated psych issues with a good, hard fuck. I’d smell his misogyny and abusive tendencies from miles off but my brain would turn to hormone soup, because abs. That’s the formula. Broken girl + bad boy = sexual healing.

I wish I could say I wrote the above quote, but alas I did not. It comes from author Leah Raeder, and in just a few sentences she sums up everything that is wrong with New Adult fiction today – and why I was hesitant to label my new novel as such. With certain genres come certain expectations, and today’s expectations for young adult romance are undeniably influenced by Fifty Shades of Grey.

The question is why.

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I live in Aran

Go read this. A beautiful love story, a real life one, about how the newest Haiku Challenge member came to fall in love and end up in Aran, Ireland. A great story and great writing. I’ve read it twice already. And yes, that’s her home. Wow!

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Text to Speech: Editing Through Listening by @PSBartlett

Text to Speech isn’t just for authors of novels. Use it for your blog as well.

Blogging: Making Friends That Last

My Guest Post on Hugh’s Views & News. Go check it out. Please? Pretty Please with a Taco on top?

How do you write?

How does one go about writing a novel or an article? They’re both the same thing of sorts, just one is a shorter story than the other. So how? That’s a question a lot of people hit search engines and begin asking. And you will find so many different answers you wonder how a book gets to be written at all. To be honest, every way you read is the right way and the wrong way. It all depends on who is doing the writing. In fact the right way for you to write a novel may not have been written yet. You haven’t written your novel yet. Until then you don’t know for certain what way is the right one for you.

Of course I have an opinion on the subject, sort of. Well I guess I do when it really comes down to it.

First of all, find a good source of how to do the basics of writing the correct way.

I read Self-Editing for Fiction Writers recently before starting my most recent project. The book showed me some things that are signs of a professional writer and an amateur writer. Taking care of a few of those basics from the beginning makes it so much easier going in to the next draft.

I listened to my book on a free text to voice download from Microsoft you can get.

I can choose male or female and even robotic sounding voices. You can also change the pace of the speech. I was happy to hear the dialogue and everything flowed well. The aforementioned book really helped. You need to listen to your book before you are finished with it. Whatever software or app you use, use one.

Things I’ve learned to do, especially that helps me:

I keep a separate word document open or even two. I keep them open for Things to Remember for the next draft and URL’s to websites that I find useful. What I am currently writing I need maps and some diagrams of types of transportation. I recalled finding one great site and I lost it. I didn’t copy the URL down. Now, if something looks even remotely good I copy the URL before I go any further. You may not think you will need that site again, but until your book is finished and in the hands of the reader, you will need it again.

Another thing I keep up is a spreadsheet.

As I create a new name, city or anything that has a name I make note of it. I do so in order of creation. I even make note of relationships if need be. This saves a lot of time when trying to recall the name of someone or where they appeared in the book.

But you still want to know how to write a novel.

Styles vary. Another author and I are writing books at the same time and we read for the other just to see how things are going. I write chapters of a certain length while they do it another way. Our genre is the same but my story has an entirely different feel to it than the other author’s story. Both stories work. Both stories tell what they need to tell and fit the type of story being told. We both like the other person’s story.

One thing you MUST do is find your writer’s voice.

I think I have created my own style of storytelling and so has the other author. Which way should you write? What length of chapters will work for you? You need to ask yourself a few questions.

  • What type of books do you like and how are they written?
  • What type of story are you going to write?
  • What voice are you going to use?
  • Who is your audience?

After you determine all of that, start writing and let the story tell you where the chapter ends and what voice to use. It doesn’t matter who your audience is. It matters how you tell a story. Can you tell a story? And if not, don’t worry, you will.

Why do I say you will? If you have a disappointment in something you write, that dream novel of yours and no one signs you to a deal, start writing. One thing you want to do is write everything. Dabble in every kind of writing genre you can and even every length of writing. Once you find that writer’s voice you are almost there. To me that is the key to it all, finding that voice.

People that have read the novels I’ve written have told me that even though there may be different genres involved they still hear me. I take that as a compliment. The genres work, but my storytelling comes through even if it is a Romance or a Middle Grade Fantasy.

One place you can try out your writing chops so to speak is writing.com. They have prompts of various kinds. It takes a little getting used to but I took steps outside of my comfort zone and wrote some stories I never would have otherwise. It’s a good way to have people review some of your writing and just write.

So how do you write a novel? The way to write a novel is to write. That’s it. Just write and learn to write the correct way. You know, an imagination is a terrible thing to waste when all you need is to know how to properly put it into words.

 

Much Respect

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Freedom – A Haiku

An excellent Haiku message.

canaf's avatarFaithful Devotionals

This is my response to RonovanWrites weekly haiku challenge.

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When Ronovan Met Miss Maple (on Skype) – Part 6

Read it, and get caught up, cause the next episode is coming at you very soon. How soon? Like real soon, like so soon I am almost finished writing it now and might would have finished it if I wasn’t explaining how close to being finished I was. But then if I didn’t explain it then you wouldn’t know how soon it would be. Okay, all of that should tell you the mood I am in as I am writing the story. Just be warned Internet Troll, the Doctor is coming for you and your little dog too. Wait. And your Rudolph thong too.